Permission granted for the life you deserve
You have permission to be who you want. You have permission to live the life of your dreams. You have permission to travel where you want. You have permission to make the money you want. You have permission to write the book. You have permission to make the film. You have permission to change your life. You have permission to BUY and wear Louboutins.
You have always had permission.
You don’t need me to say it. Or anyone else to say it either.
You know that right?
In one of my client sessions, the topic of permission came up about choosing the lesser thing or the greater thing that she really wanted. She felt bad about choosing the greater thing and felt the lesser thing was more practical, more in line with what she would normally choose. The lesser thing felt NORMAL, while the greater thing felt ABNORMAL.
At the end of the session she realized that the greater thing was what she truly wanted, needed and deserved. The only thing standing in her way was herself.
Denial had been her way of life. Denying her right to what she truly wanted because of what she believed others would say. Denying her right to accepting and believing that she had the power, to make her heartfelt choice.
It has always been her right. Her birthright.
It is also YOUR right.
You have the right to the GREATER THING.
YOU DON’T NEED TO SETTLE. EVER.
You don’t have to choose the lesser thing because of a relationship. You don’t have to choose the lesser thing because you have children. You don’t have to choose the lesser thing because of responsibility to anything.
You can have the life you choose. It’s all up to you. Your choices are your own to make. Your choices do not belong to anyone else.
Media will sometimes put us in a box and tell us that what are choices are. BUT…You don’t have to give away your power.
There is nothing honorable about choosing the little thing while denying yourself what you want. You aren’t a martyr because you gave up the thing you wanted. No one is going to say, “Oh how noble of you to choose the little tiny thing, you sacrificed so much. What a worthy selfless act.”
We worry and brood over thinking that others are paying attention to what we are doing and therefore stop living our lives according to our choices.
DO NOT PASS GO AND COLLECT $200.00.
Stop playing by other people’s rules.
Your life is yours. And this life is a game and you get to play it exactly how you want.
My parent’s said, go to college and get a job. Then get married and everything will be perfect.
That didn’t work out for me. At that time, I didn’t know I had options. After living someone else’s life for so long I had almost forgotten what choices I wanted.
I didn’t know that I had permission to live life on my terms. I kept trying to fit myself in the box and it wasn’t working. But I kept trying and something was always sticking out of the box. Mostly the thing sticking out of the box was ME, the REAL ME.
I wasn’t giving myself permission to try something new. Until…
Finally I had enough of trying that DAMN box, and tried something new.
And kept trying new things and found that those new things fit perfect.
They were the right Cinderella size, or Goldie locks, whatever, they were just MY size.
That’s when I knew that I was never going back to that box. That box was meant for someone else. That’s why it didn’t fit.
You don’t have to live in a box labeled with someone else’s name.
PERMISSION GRANTED TO LIVE YOUR WAY.
Try something new. Try a coach. Try a retreat. Try meditation. Try anything different than what you have been doing if you want a new result.
That is the secret. Keep trying until you find what suits you.
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